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      <title>Post Covid Support</title>
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           This month we are thinking a lot about how mental health impacts our male population. 
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           In a 2014 study, it suggested that as many as 1 in 8 men will suffer with a “common mental health problem” such as anxiety, depression, panic disorder or even OCD (1). It might shock you to learn that of those roughly 4 million or so males that are currently living in the UK struggling with a common mental health disorder, only 32.5% of referrals to an IAPT service are for those identifying as male.
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           So why is that? Why is it that men aren’t seeking out support for a problem that the statistics say is definitely out there?
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           In a 2016 men’s health forum survey, they found that the majority of men said that “they would take time off work to get medical help for physical symptoms like unexpected lumps or chest pain, but only 1 in 5 said they would do the same for anxiety. 
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           These statistics paint a picture that most men feel that mental health is just something that they should “get on with” or that “there are people with worse problems out there, I should just Man up”
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           “I didn’t want to ring the GP; I was just a little stressed. It’s hardly like I was dying! I didn’t realise the impact my mood was having on myself, my work, or my family”
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           It’s not uncommon for guys to believe that their worth as a man is linked to their ability to be “manly” and generationally, a lot of guys are taught that “emotions are for girls” which leads them to feel emasculated by accepting that emotions are a real part of the human experience, regardless of gender.
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           This also links in with their value as a potential mate or in a friendship group. Often men are taught that being more “stoic” is a desirable quality in a partner or in a friend, but luckily, more and more this ideal of an “alpha male” persona is being challenged. 
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           “My parents would always say, stop being such a girl, or big boys don’t cry. I was taught that emotions were a bad thing, and were not part of being a man” 
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           Though the primary symptoms of depression are the same across all genders, there is marked research that suggests that the behaviours associated with depression in men can present more prevalent than with other genders (3). For example: 
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           • Escapist behaviour, such as spending a lot of time at work or on sports
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           “No one ever taught me how to express the way I was feeling in a healthy manner. I would get frustrated and then lash out, only to be told I was grumpy and ungrateful” 
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           How can I help myself/ the men in my life? 
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           Practicing self-care
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           It’s important to remember to treat ourselves to the care and respect we deserve. Too often we focus too much on looking after others and not enough on ourselves, make time for yourself, your hobbies, and your physical health, even if that means making sure you eat right or get enough sleep.
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           Be kinder to yourself
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           Be more acknowledging of your/their emotions and the impact they might be having. Sometimes an open conversation with a friend or partner is a lifeline. Being kind to yourself means not judging yourself so harshly for not being perfect or not holding yourself to impossibly high standards. Men have emotions, and it’s okay to experience them. 
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           Trying new things for yourself
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           Part of self-care is building yourself, trying new things and exposing yourself to new situations, whether that’s finally getting that gym membership you want, picking up a new skill like cooking or an instrument, or finally having the courage to try out that walking group that you see pop up on the local area social media page. Finding a new behaviour to replace old, negative ones can be very helpful way to deal with anger or irritability. For example: 
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           Exercising reduces blood pressure and releases endorphins into the bloodstream which combats the feeling of anger. 
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           If anything within this post has resonated with you, please don’t feel you have to suffer in silence, 
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            As an NHS approved provider of therapy, we can support clients with common mental health problems, to get in touch please visit the self-refer button on our website. 
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      <title>Loneliness can hurt</title>
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           With the right help there are activities that will support you with the impact of loneliness
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           Pre-pandemic, the government released a set of statistics that suggested that as many as 1 in every 20 people reported feeling lonely “often” or “always”.
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           and with many of us being cut off from our loved ones, working from home or shielding due to our physical health this number has only grown.
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           As a counsellor, I’m often faced with clients who are unaware that they are struggling with loneliness. “How is it that I can feel so alone, so empty, when I’m surrounded by so many people?”
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           Loneliness is not the same as isolation. You can be physically isolated, yet not feel lonely.
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           Or as above, you can be surrounded by other people, friends or loved ones and yet still feel lonely.
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           The important difference is that loneliness is a feeling, an emotional experience about where you are in your life, and who should be there to share it with you on a deeper level.
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           Loneliness comes in many different forms, three of the common forms are:
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           -          Feeling the loss of someone close to us, a friend, partner, or a loved one who we miss.
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           This is often referred to as: Emotional loneliness
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           -          Feeling the loss of connection to people at certain times, like weekends when we don’t see our friends, or Christmas.
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           This is often referred to as: situational loneliness
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           -          Feeling the lack of connection to the outside world that we feel we “fit into” with friends, neighbours or a group of like-minded people.
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           This is often referred to as: social Loneliness
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           What causes us to feel lonely?
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           There are many situations or causes that lead to our feeling lonely. Situations that we are all likely to face at one time or another:
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           -          A bereavement
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           -          The loss of social contact you had at work due to the pandemic
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           -           Changing jobs and feeling isolated from your co-workers
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           -          Moving to a new area or country without family, friends or attachment to a community.
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           Some research suggests that people are more likely to experience loneliness if you:
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           -          Struggle with social anxiety
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           -          Are estranged from your family
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           “having social anxiety is like there is this invisible barrier between me and everyone else, I can see them having fun and I want to be part of that world, but I’m just so scared to reach out. “
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           When we are feeling lonely, abandoned or empty it can often be like we are stuck in this dark pit with no light, and no one to save us.
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      <pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2022 14:59:11 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Seasonal affective disorder</title>
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           How to understand a common mental health issue often experienced during the winter months.
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           What is seasonal affective disorder
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           Seasonal affective disorder (SAD), or seasonal depression, is a type of depression that’s related to the changing of the seasons and weather. It usually starts in autumn as the days get shorter, and tends to end as spring starts and the clocks go forward (this year it’s the 27th of March). Some people with SAD describe it as ‘like having your own portable black cloud’. It’s common to feel different as the weather changes, maybe your energy levels drop a bit in winter or your sleeping patterns change a bit. However, if you’re finding that your feelings interfere with your ability to function day-to-day continually, then it could be a sign of depression.
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           Some of the common symptoms of SAD include:
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           · A persistent low mood
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           · Loss of pleasure or interest in normal everyday activities
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           What causes seasonal affective disorder?
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           According to the NHS, the particular cause of SAD is not fully known, but there is a link to the reduction of sunlight exposure as the clocks go back and our days are shorter during autumn and winter. The main theory is that the lack of sunlight may reduce the level of activity in the hypothalamus and therefore affect…
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           Melatonin is a hormone that activates to help you go to sleep; if your body produces higher levels than normal then you would feel sleepy even in the middle of the day which may account for why people with SAD sleep during the day and feel irritable when they don’t.
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           Serotonin is a hormone that affects your mood, appetite and sleep. There may be a link between lower levels of serotonin and lack of sunlight exposure which could then lead to feelings of depression as the hormone isn’t produced at the levels the body expects.
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           Your body has an internal clock known as the circadian rhythm that ensures that you get enough sleep at night to rest and heal. However, your body uses sunlight to time various functions, such as waking up or going to bed. If you body doesn’t get enough sunlight exposure then the low light levels may disrupt your clock and lead to symptoms of SAD.
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           Seasonal affective disorder is usually diagnosed more often in women compared to men, and it also usually affects younger adults than those who are older. Family history can also play a role, as sharing genetics with someone who has had a form of depression can influence the likelihood of being diagnosed with SAD. If you already have a form of depression, or bipolar disorder, then your condition may worsen as the seasons change. Furthermore, living far away from the equator can affect whether you’re affected by changing seasons as the further away you are, the less sunlight you are exposed to during the winter months. Finally, not receiving enough vitamin D through sunlight and foods can reduce serotonin activity as vitamin D can help boost the hormone levels.
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           There are a range of treatments available, and speaking with your GP about what you’re going through will help them recommend the most suitable option for you. The main treatments are:
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           · Lifestyle measures: ensuring that you get as much natural sunlight as you can, as well as making sure you have a solid sleep routine, eating properly, exercising regularly and managing your stress levels.
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           · Light therapy: a special lamp called a light box is used to simulate sunlight exposure and help your hormones stay on track.
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           · Talking therapies: TrentPTS has a wide range of talking therapies where we can help with seasonal affective disorder through Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT).
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           If you are struggling with seasonal affective disorder, please self-refer in to our service.
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      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Feb 2022 10:42:50 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Employment is such a key part of our mental health wellbeing</title>
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           Mental health &amp;amp; Employment 
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            For those being impacted by mental health illness, being employed can be an important step to recovery, improving self-esteem, confidence and reducing psychological distress. 
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            Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and act. It also helps determine how we handle stress, respond to situations, relate to others, and make choices. 
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           Most people's mental health will not just be continuously good. Usually, it will rise and fall depending on pressures and/or experiences in their life, such as work. A person may therefore feel in good mental health generally but also experience stress and anxiety from time to time. 
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           People being impacted by mental health illness are often the experts when it comes to identifying the support or adjustments they might need and how to manage their triggers within the workplace. However, not everyone is confident in having these conversations with their employer and will often avoid taking positive actions. 
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            I have recently supported a patient who was accessing IAPT therapy who was off sick from their workplace with work related stress and anxiety and was considering their current employment options and contemplating whether they wanted to return back into their workplace. Within the patient’s therapy sessions, it had been identified there was a history of avoidance behaviour and a repeated pattern of behaviours that had occurred within many of the patient’s past employments. Where there had been issues or conflict with a line manager, rather than the patient confront these and try to resolve with their employer, they would avoid this and resign. 
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           I worked collaboratively with the therapist and the patient, with the main focus on breaking this repeated pattern of behaviour hoping to empower the patient to regain control of their thoughts and feelings and develop better coping strategies when dealing with workplace conflicts. 
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           Through collaborative working between me and the therapist, we were able to help the patient to adjust their mindset in a positive way and help them to understand that the key to overcoming avoidance behaviour was to slowly face what they were avoiding so it was no longer controlling them and over time this would become more manageable.   
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            We explored past and current workplace issues, the approach taken by the patient to overcome their workplace problems and how they could have been handled differently, increased awareness of ways to be more assertive at work, or how conflicting situations can be overcome while learning new ways to reduce stress within the workplace as it arises. 
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            We spent time to reflect and learn about different management styles and explored the difficulties the patient has when challenging people in authority within the workplace and how this links into their avoidance behaviour, past and present. We analysed the current difficulties the patient has with communicating openly with their current line manager and looked into how this could change. 
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            The important breakthrough for the patient was when they attended a welfare meeting with their employer, which took place within the workplace. The patient was given support to prepare and plan for this meeting, establish reasonable adjustments, a phased return to work plan, and develop ways to articulate their workplace stressors to the line manager, helping to become more confident and assertive. The patient was feeling very anxious but by confronting the situation rather than avoid it, was able to take a first positive step in changing a negative repeated pattern of behaviour. 
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           Following this, the patient’s confidence started to grow and has since been able to agree a return to work. Even though there still remains uncertainty on if sustainable changes will continue to be made by the employer or the working relationship with the line manger continues to blossom, this is a fantastic personal accomplishment for the patient. 
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           Of course, doing so was far easier said than done. That is why it with the support of the therapist and employment advisor, the patient did not face previously avoided situations alone and was able to grow in confidence and develop better copying strategies, which they can use not only utilise within the current workplace but also within future employments. 
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            - That you walked me through different perspectives on the situation, including the employer’s, and distinguished between what was more or less reasonable behaviour on both sides.
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      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Jan 2022 13:12:33 GMT</pubDate>
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                The sleepiness. The constant yawning. The heavy feeling in your limbs and eyes. “Why can’t I get up?” “Why am I so lazy all the time?” “I don’t have any reason to be tired, so why am I?” These thoughts and feelings can plague people with depression. It’s hard enough to have the feelings of hopelessness and loneliness, but to be tired all the time as well? That can only make it worse.
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                      The secret is that anxiety and depression are exhausting things to have to deal with. Studies have shown that anxiety and depression increase physical fatigue. But why is this?
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                      When a person experiences anxiety (long-term stress about future or hypothetical events that is not easily prevented or stopped), certain physiological symptoms occur. Because anxiety is “stress” that is in response to something that hasn’t happened yet, it creates similar responses in the body to that of a “fight or flight” response. People experience shaking, sweating, pounding heart beats, quicker breathing, nausea or more. These symptoms, when the stressor is removed (or when anxiety is soothed), subside; this leaves way for the less popularly known “rest and digest response”. 
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                      Essentially, the “rest and digest” response is the opposite to the “fight or flight”. Heart beat slows, breathing slows, adrenaline is removed from the bloodstream and blood returns to the digestion tract to increase blood sugar. The problem is that when people experience long-term anxiety, seemingly constant anxiety, or many bursts of anxiety, it tires the body out. Not to mention the mental energy it takes to experience that anxiety or try to reduce anxiety. Experiencing lots of anxiety and stressors in your day to day life is similar to encountering multiple tigers every day and having to either fight or run for your life.
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                      Putting what people with anxiety go through into perspective (especially the perspective of understanding the biological symptoms of experiencing anxiety and the recovery) helps people understand why they are so tired, despite not having to actually fight a tiger. 
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                      These issues also relate to people struggling with depression, because anxiety and depression often go hand-in-hand. Not to mention along with experiencing anxiety, people with depression also deal with negative thoughts, hopelessness, and poor self-image. These low moods and negative thoughts are equally as exhausting on a day to day basis. No wonder you’re tired.
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                      One struggle that people with anxiety and depression often have is falling asleep. And then once they do, it's impossible to wake up or stay awake. Then on top of that, day-time napping can exacerbate the issue. After a while it can seem like having a restful sleep and waking refreshed is unachievable.
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                      Oftentimes, part of reducing anxiety or improving mood is tied to improving sleep. Things like coming up with a routine for before bed, reducing screen time before sleep, taking a warm bath or shower, or having a cup of (decaf!) tea can be very helpful for helping individuals fall asleep. It can also be helpful to try and implement a kind of schedule: set a time to start your before bed routine, set a time to try and go to sleep, set a time to wake up and have a routine to help activate your mind and body. These things help relax the body and introduce your mind to a predictable schedule which may be helpful. 
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                      The big challenge can be avoiding sleeping during the day. Everyone loves a quick cat nap in the afternoon, but sleeping for longer than a half hour can be very disruptive to the body’s sleep rhythm. Therefore, it is important to find ways to not only keep you awake during the day but to also fight off sleepiness. Try going for a walk, cooking some food, calling or chatting with a family member to activate your mind and drive away the sleepiness. 
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                      What’s most important to take out of this information is that you’re not lazy, I promise. No matter what anyone tells you, you aren’t tired for nothing, you’re not lazy. You’re doing the equivalent of fighting tigers in your mind every day, it’s hard work. The lovely thing is that help is always available to turn those tigers into kittens.
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           Being active doesn’t necessarily mean having to go to the gym, or playing a sport; there are so many ways of doing physical activity, so find the one that works for you! But first, let’s break it all down. What is physical activity? How does it help and how much should you be doing?
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           Physical activity is any movement of your body that uses your muscles and energy. Generally, the average adult should do between 75 and 150 minutes of exercise a week, which is up to 2 and a half hours. This can be moderate intensity exercise, like walking, riding a bike, or gently swimming, or you can increase the intensity to more vigorous activities like running, or cardio workouts. There are four main categories: daily physical activity, purposeful exercise, play, and sport. Daily physical exercise like walking to work, carrying bags or climbing stairs counts toward the 150 minutes of exercise goal. Exercise can also be a purposeful activity done to improve health or fitness such as jogging or cycling; whereas play is unstructured physical activity that is done purely for fun or enjoyment. The final type, sport, is a structured activity that can include all sorts of games such as football, squash, netball, cricket, or swimming. This is a fun and interactive way of exercising that doesn’t always feel like exercise and can vary in intensity. Making exercise fun, rather than something you feel that you have to do can be a positive motivator to keep going and keep moving.
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           Physical activity can also play a role in our wellbeing, which refers to our mental state. While wellbeing and physical exercise don’t have many direct links with each other, the two work closer together than one may think.
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           Physical activity can have a large impact on our mood. A study by Kanning and Schlicht in 2010 found that when participants rated their mood immediately after physical activity such as going on a walk or doing housework, they felt calmer, more content and awake compared to those who rated their mood after inactivity such as reading a book or watching television. They also found that when mood was initially low prior to doing physical activity, the effect on mood was greatest.
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           Exercise can also impact and increase self-esteem, which is how we feel about ourselves and our perception of our self-worth. If our self-esteem is down, it can affect not only our mental wellbeing but our ability to cope with stressful situations as well. This relationship between mental health and physical exercise has been found in all age groups, regardless of age.
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           Impact on stress is also popular; when we experience stressful events, our body’s stress response retaliates and hormones, adrenaline and noradrenaline raise our blood pressure, increase our heart rate and prepare our body for an emergency response. By increasing your heartrate, you can provide your body with stress relief by imitating the effects of stress and helping your body practice working through those effects. Exercise can also help you work through the daily tensions of your life, it’s been suggested that by focusing on your body’s movements you may find it easier to concentrate on a single task after exercise.
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           As mentioned earlier, the average amount of exercise an adult should be doing a week is between 75-150 minutes. However, in 2015 only around 65.5% of men and 54% of women were actually meeting the recommended physical activity levels (Health and Social Care Information Centre, 2015). These statistics can have implications for mental health as well as physical health as we know that there is a link between mental wellbeing and physical activity. However, there are some things to consider before you get started. For instance, if you’re taking regular medication, some prescriptions can have effects on your heart rate or fluid levels depending on the active ingredients. If you’re recovering from an eating disorder, some people may use exercise as a positive part of recovery, while others may find that they are over-exercising. Finally, because exercising usually increases your heart rate and you get breathless, many people feel similarly to how they do when they have a panic attack, and it can be very distressing. With these factors in mind, we suggest that you talk with your GP before starting to get active and make sure that it’s the right choice for you. Low intensity exercises are also an option such as yoga or water aerobics – it’s still physical activity just without increasing your heart rate.
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           It can be very scary making big changes to your life and lifestyle, and some common barriers people encounter are cost, injury, lack of energy, fear of failure and even the weather can stop people from keeping pushing on, or getting started. Body image can also act as a barrier for participating in physical activity, people who are anxious about how their body will look or how they will look (I know I put off starting going to a gym for a while until I went with a friend because I didn’t want to look like I didn’t know what I was doing). For women, attending a female-only exercise room can really help, or going at a quiet time to figure it out at your own pace without worrying about others.
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           Exercising with a friend can also help reduce anxiety about how your body looks, and can help relax your mind. The environment can also play a major role; gyms with mirrors can heighten anxiety, as with windows or space where you might feel ‘on show’.
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           Making time for physical activity is important, as well as being practical – you may have to rejig your schedule around to fit in the time, or you may find external support from friends and family helps. In addition, think about what kind of activity would suit you best, think about if you’d like to exercise at home, or a different environment. You could also consider if there’s a specific part of your body you want to exercise more than others, or if you want to strengthen your whole body. Once you’ve narrowed down what you plan to do, it’s time to make it part of your daily life. It doesn’t have to be huge drastic changes, it can just be parking your car at the end of the car park and walking a little further into work, or walking up the flight of stairs instead of the lift. Starting slowly can allow you to gradually build up your ability and focus on goals such as stamina. Many free apps are available like Apple’s Health app or Google Fit to help you keep progress of your activity and allow you to go back and see where you started. It’s also incredibly important to set yourself goals to measure progress, as well as motivate you. Working toward a set goal is a great way to motivate yourself by setting a distance or time you want to be able to exercise for.
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           Taking the first step can be tricky, but making small changes to include more physical activity in your day-to-day life can help boost your mood and help reduce stress.
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           Alzheimer’s is a neurodegenerative condition that can be extremely taxing, on both the person diagnosed with it, as well as their loved ones caring for them. It is a global challenge, with nearly 50 million people living with dementia all over the world. September was World Alzheimer’s Month, but we should consider Alzheimer's all year round. This post wants to help carers know the signs and symptoms of Alzheimer’s and Dementia, as well as how to support yourself as a carer. 
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            Dementia can affect people differently, sometimes exhibiting the main symptoms, but sometimes not – which is especially seen in the early stages prior to diagnosis. Someone with dementia will most likely have cognitive symptoms which affect thinking and memory. They’ll usually have some problems with day-to-day memory, or concentrating, planning, or organising. For instance, they may have difficulties making decisions, or carrying out a sequence of tasks such as following directions. Some people also find following a conversation difficult, or they can’t find the right word to say. It’s also quite common for people to have trouble remembering the day or date, or they sometimes are confused about where they are. These sorts of issues are commonplace in people with dementia, and being supportive and providing a safe space to talk can help those struggling come to terms with their diagnosis. Try to avoid to keep testing someone on previous memories or people, nor should you remind them of when they remember memories incorrectly – this may cause greater distress. 
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           Of course, different people will enjoy different past-times but below are some suggestions for various activities to do with the one you care for. Ensuring that the activity is meaningful and enjoyable is important, as well as remembering that you don’t have to finish every activity – it’s alright to stop and pick up where you left off another day. Encouraging them as you both complete the activity together is also important to help with confidence and to stay active with their interests. 
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            If the person you’re caring for enjoys being outdoors and in fresh air, doing activities outside can give them that contact with nature, plants and animals whatever the weather. Gardening is a good low intensity activity to do outside, but even just taking indoor-projects such as painting, drawing, or reading outside can make a difference. Walks around the neighbourhood or a local park can also be enjoyable activities to do outside, or going to get a coffee and a leg stretch. Walks in a memorable area can provide a sense of familiarity while getting a leg stretch, and there are also dementia-friendly organised walks.
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           Many people with dementia remember music lyrics and tunes even when their condition has progressed and it can trigger powerful memories and emotions. Playing tunes of musicals or composers can help those who have Alzheimer’s have a sense of familiarity and comfort, and be fun, engaging and relaxing. 
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           Online games and activities can also be a good way to do projects that require fine motor skills without the frustration of not being able to fully do it. For instance, some people who enjoy arts and crafts may not be able to use scissors properly, or be able to glue without help from a carer; using apps on computers and tablets can be a way to work around the frustration and create digital masterpieces. Technology doesn’t always have to be used, card games and board games can also be a good way to have fun together. Some other activities to do together could include reminiscent projects, such as putting together photo albums or memory boxes with familiar items that have purpose and meaning. 
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            Taking regular breaks and having time apart can be healthy for both you and the person you care for, and giving you that space to breathe and think. Remember to also be kind for yourself, support is available at Alzheimers.org’s Dementia Connect support line, which is specifically for carers. 
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           Ensuring the wellbeing of your loved one is important, but so is the care of your own wellbeing! Including activities in your week that make you both happy such as light exercise, or listening to music can help the time pass by, and cope with difficult feelings such as anxiousness. It can also help to create some structure in your day by using a calendar or a memory board to plan activities such as outings or events and have an idea of how the day is going to run. 
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           Staying connected, and using the support of friends and family can be extremely beneficial for mental wellbeing, and with the ongoing pandemic, it can be very easy to feel alone. Keeping in touch either by video chat, phone calls or emails can provide you with the space to talk about your emotions. Meeting face-to-face can also be a good way as we ease out of the pandemic and slowly get out more and see more people.
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           Eating a balanced diet is a key part of staying healthy; it can be fun if you try out new recipes with your loved one if possible and make them part of the experience. Staying active with exercise is also incredibly important for mental wellbeing. Dancing, gardening, yoga and walking are some good ways to implement daily exercise activities into your day and keep moving. If the person you care for enjoys spending time outdoors, you can both go for a walk in a local park for some fresh air and contact with nature as well as stretching your legs. 
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            We encourage you, if you don’t already, to learn and educate yourself about dementia. Spreading awareness about the condition is a good way to reduce the stigma, provide people with accessible resources and educate those who have to care for a loved one with Alzheimer’s. Alzheimers.org has some fantastic resources such as print publications, accessible resources and practical tools.
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           As the pandemic nears a year and a half of age, it’s hard to think back to how differently the world ran before, with weekly university nights out, few virtual events, and no lateral flow tests. However, many people have found major differences in their mental health since the beginning of the pandemic due to the switch to e-learning, increased feelings of uncertainty and the periods of isolation and quarantine.
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           If you’re a university student feeling upset about how the global pandemic changed your life, you are not alone. A survey conducted by the National Union of Students in 2020 found that out of more than 4,000 students, over half claimed their mental health has been negatively affected or deteriorated during the pandemic. However, only 20% of students have sought mental health support. Of course, there are many reasons students may not seek help, but lack of resources should not be one of them. If your mental health has suffered during the pandemic, you can self-refer to our organisation, which will connect you to our therapists and figure out the next step in regards to treatment.
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           In addition, there are various effects Covid has had on students, from loneliness and isolation to financial struggles, to general anxiety about getting ill or family members catching the virus. Each one of these concerns and emotions is valid, and an understandable side effect to the global pandemic. Stress due to financial strain and overall uncertainty can also be hard to deal with, especially when facing it alone; this pandemic has forced a lot of students to isolate over the past year, with little ability to feel normal. However, when these feelings make it hard to function on a daily basis, it’s time to seek help: either by talking it out with family and friends or talking to your GP about the next steps which may be referring you to a service.
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           In addition, because of the pandemic, university students who would usually attend lectures and seminars in-person instead spent the whole year at a computer screen. This change has led to increased levels of anti-socialness and depression, as well as anxiety. However, the emotional damage is not the only part that hurt students, as everyone who returned was asked to pay the full price of tuition costs, regardless of the change in learning quality. In addition, student accommodation agencies refused to discount rent when the pandemic hit which resulted in further financial stress, and the constant uncertainty of another spike can have effects on students trying to navigate the new adult world. These increased stressors have affected students’ mental health and forced them to make difficult decisions regarding coming home to family when living at university in case they expose family members to the virus.
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           University is a busy time and ensuring your mental health is cared for will make your time as a student that much more enjoyable. TrentPTS offers a variety of support and treatment therapies which can help with low mood and feelings of anxiousness. Suffering alone can drain your energy alongside the mental illness and taking care of yourself by referring to a service and working with a therapist can start your journey to feeling like yourself again. 
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           The poem below was written by a student’s perspective of the pandemic, and how some readers may have also felt, or still feel.
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           Panic.
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           You somehow miss the absolutely awful dining hall food.
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           The journey to and from the kitchen seems like a lifetime.
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           Your friends across the country are light-years away now.
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           Home is where the heart is, but my heart is far away from home now.
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           If you are a student and struggling with depression, anxiety stress or any suicidal thoughts, please use the following self-referral link to connect to our services.
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           Samaritans
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           The Samaritans give people confidential emotional support. In some areas they have local branches where you can go for support.
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           Telephone: 116 123 (UK) (24 hours)
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           Address: PO Box RSRB-KKBY-CYJK, P.O. Box 90 90, Stirling FK8 2SA
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           This is a national helpline. The offer emotional support and information for people affected by mental health problems.
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           If you’re experiencing a personal crisis, are unable to cope and need support, text Shout to 85258. Shout can help with urgent issues such as suicidal thoughts, abuse or assault, self-harm, bullying and relationship challenges.
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      <pubDate>Mon, 13 Sep 2021 11:30:02 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>When It's Time For That Chat</title>
      <link>https://www.trentpts.co.uk/that-chat</link>
      <description>Blog about opening up about mental health to family and friends, some barriers and advice that may be involved in that</description>
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           Opening Up to Family and Friends about Mental Health
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           “Talking about your mental health with the people you trust is often the first step to feeling better.” -Daisy, 20.
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           Opening up about any hardships can be tricky, but it can be especially hard to discuss the struggles and difficulties of poor mental health. There are many reasons people are afraid, such as those who you open up to may not take you seriously, they could ask uncomfortable questions, possibly try to lecture you or they may have enough on their plate. Whatever your reason, just remember that depression, anxiety, stress and panic disorders are real mental health disorders, and by giving them a glance of what you’re feeling, they may be able to help lift the weight.
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           A few ways to open up may start with looking to people who aren’t as close to you as your sibling, partner or parent. For instance, talking with a co-worker, teacher, church or other religious group can be a bit easier and serve as a practice session before opening up to those especially close to you. If you’re still a bit too nervous for those kinds of conversations, it might help to write it down, get it out of your system and give it to your family or close friend. It’s a good idea to find a suitable time and place to have the conversation, it can feel a bit nerve-wracking but finding somewhere comfortable and quiet can make it easier by removing unnecessary distractions. If you’ve found someone on television who’s said something that you can relate to, it may make it easier to use them as an example and to help explain your feelings, especially if you’re struggling with finding the right words to say. Once you’ve had a discussion with them about your mental health, they may want to help, and to learn how to help and this will differ for every person. You may just want someone to listen to you and offer emotional support, while maybe you know that you want some practical help from a professional; it’s okay to not know what you want yet. Taking this first step and getting your feelings out of your head is a large step in the right direction.
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            However, sometimes familial support isn’t always available, but treatment centres will always be there for you, and TrentPTS offers many services that will work with you to get your mental health back on track. Some people would also rather open up to friends rather than family, and the suggestions regarding how to have this conversation are similar when talking about it with friends.
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           According to psychological research, young people under the age of 24 are more likely to report mental health difficulties relative to older generations due to higher levels of stress. This can influence the care and support provided by professionals; depending on your age, it may be easier to talk to different kinds of people. For instance, when opening up, older people may feel more comfortable talking to a professional instead of friends or neighbours (but if you’re older and unsure about how you’re feeling, it may help to have a chat with a trusted family friend and check-in with yourself). However, younger people generally feel more comfortable discussing mental health with friends before asking for professional help. Sometimes it can be hard when in the face-paced environment of school, or you may be scared of judgment which is a completely normal concern.
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           Organisations like Young Minds collated a list of tips for talking to friends about mental health (Young Minds, 2019). Similar to when talking with family, they suggest you plan ahead and make sure you’re in a comfortable environment for opening up, and also talk about what they can do to support you. If you don’t want to answer some of their questions that’s alright, you can answer them in your own time and your friends should respect that. It’s also good to set some boundaries on what you find helpful and unhelpful – for instance you may not find jokes about mental health helpful at all, while others use it as a coping mechanism. However, those who do not respect you or your requests may not have you best interests in mind and don’t feel the need to stay friends with those who make you feel worse. It can be really helpful to open up, and talking about your struggles with trusted friends or family can help you take that step of asking for help.
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           Opening up to people can be daunting, but by planning out what, when and how you want to have your conversation, it can be less stressful and provide you with an extra sense of control. Treatment centres like TrentPTS are also always available if you’d like to refer yourself in, and they can help suggest treatment options and how to best support you.
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           CALM (The Campaign Against Living Miserably)
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           The Samaritans give people confidential emotional support. In some areas they have local branches where you can go for support.
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      <pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2021 11:00:04 GMT</pubDate>
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      <link>https://www.trentpts.co.uk/adhd-series-3</link>
      <description>A blog about ADHD, anxiety, and depression. Talks about leaning into aspects of ADHD, embracing the natural tendencies, and not feeling shame around symptoms and behaviour. Also mentions of accommodation, treatment, medication, and different types of functioning.</description>
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           A common myth in popular psychology is that good mental health is near impossible when we have a disorder. There is quite a bit of misinformation around that paints good mental health as constant joy and perfect functioning. This is simply not true. Everyone is going to experience stress, everyone will have ups and downs, everyone is going to have low moods from time to time. 
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           Things can seem harder when you already have ADHD, a divergence from typical functioning. We can feel like we’re destined to have a harder life and experience anxiety or depression. But this doesn’t have to be the case. While some people may just be naturally good at taking care of their mental health (just like some people are really good at sports or painting or public speaking) most people will need help learning how to care for their mental health. 
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           It’s very easy to fall into the trap of mental illness and it can be hard to find your way back to good mental health. This is true for people with and without existing disorders and neurodivergence. Some of the help you may find online or in other resources will be geared towards typically functioning people, so it can be discouraging when those things don’t work for you. But there are ways to improve your mental health that are tried and tested, designed specifically for people with different functioning types. 
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           For instance, buying a daily planner may not work for you. But littering your refrigerator with post-its or writing reminders on your hand might. Trying to keep yourself active by weight lifting or going for runs might be too much for you to juggle into your daily life, but you can try walking to the shop, to get coffee, or other common tasks you need to do outside of your home. 
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           Sometimes it’s preferable and better for your mental health to lean into aspects of your ADHD. Embrace your naturally evolving interests and let yourself be okay with not doing hobbies that are no longer pleasurable. Try to get necessary tasks done to keep yourself healthy and in a clean environment for your health, but let yourself embrace some of your impulsive thoughts as long as they aren’t detrimental to other elements of your life (for example: don’t just abandon your job to spend a day in your pyjamas, but if you want that bag of sweets, go for it). Embrace ADHD, just remember to protect your mental health by finding what works for you to keep organised, stay physically healthy, and reach out for support like therapy, potentially medication for added mood stability, if you haven’t been diagnosed try getting a diagnosis so you can get better accommodations for at work or school (quieter work spaces, the ability to extend deadlines, more flexible hours, etc.).
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           It can also be very easy in those with ADHD to go through phases of enjoying activities (a new musical instrument, a new sport, learning a new skill, researching a new topic), wanting to only engage in that activity and then suddenly drop that activity with no interest to continue it. These activities may come back into your focus and then leave again but that isn’t the problem. The issue in this is that many people with ADHD will make themselves feel bad because they spent money on the activity or they feel like they have to continue on with it or engage with the activity consistently over the course of their life. These “I should” thoughts are ways that we shame ourselves, especially when it comes to engaging with activities that should be pleasurable. Sometimes keeping something consistent in your life is simply not what’s best for your mental health. 
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           All in all, ADHD is not a horrible condition that will doom you to a life of poor mental health. Obviously this post is not an exhaustive guide to improving your mental health with ADHD, but there are many resources available to you to help improve your mental health, including services available here at Trent PTS.
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      <pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2021 11:00:03 GMT</pubDate>
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           ADHD symptoms can provide unique problems for people in everyday life (i.e. time blindness, procrastinating, fixating on specific tasks, inattentiveness, lack of motivation to do necessary tasks like laundry or washing dishes). Because of this, some treatments for people with ADHD and anxiety/depression can be less effective. 
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           But this doesn’t mean that there are no options to improve your mental health. Some treatments will simply need some adjustments or a longer course of treatment. For instance, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) has been found to be an effective treatment for ADHD (i.e. Problem-solving, cognitive restructuring, behavioural activation). Essentially CBT allows us to train our brains in order to avoid falling into the Anxiety/Depression cycle, find a way out of the Anxiety/Depression cycle, and become more capable of keeping up with tasks. 
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           The nice thing about getting CBT and having someone talk you through the exercises is that you have someone to set out what needs to be done, describe why these things are effective, and specifically describe the steps that need to be done. Common activities in CBT include writing down thoughts, recognising negativity and rerouting the thoughts, or building a schedule for activities that people may find difficult to do. While these seem like tasks and activities that you could do completely independently, people with ADHD can find these things impossible without having a proper course of treatment to help keep people engaged in the CBT. 
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           The second aspect of treatment for aspects of ADHD that can cause anxiety and/or depression is medication. While medication specifically for ADHD can be difficult to come by (especially if you were not diagnosed as a child or have not been diagnosed formally at all), medications to treat the anxiety or depression are more readily available after speaking to your GP about your specific issues. The important thing about medication is that some medications will not be effective for you as an individual, but others may be.
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           Research has found that multimodal treatment (combining two or more kinds of treatment) is the most effective pathway for people with ADHD. While only trying one kind of treatment at a time may alleviate the negative symptoms and decrease anxiety and depression, trying both (as long as the medication isn’t worsening symptoms, you can keep trying them until you find one that works for you) is likely to work much better. 
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           Research has also found that discussing your struggles and improvements with other individuals with similar issues (like ADHD) is particularly helpful in not only improving mood but also helping to keep you engaged in your treatment. 
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           Naturally, you may want to augment your treatment with self-help options specifically for people with ADHD. Common tips to help make you feel healthier and more organised include creating visual reminders in your home to remind you to complete tasks (I personally enjoy: making myself a list of mini goals like eating at least twice a day and spending five minutes tidying a space; creating five goals to complete over the span of 5-15 days depending on how busy I am), treating yourself when you achieve your goals (go out to a nice lunch, buy something you’ve wanted for a while, buy some new hair dye, etc.) and trying to invest in nutritious food and spending time caring for yourself. These things are not a replacement for therapy and/or medication but rather ways to try and make your body feel better as well as keeping yourself organised. 
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           In the end it is important to know that while ADHD is a part of you and makes up some of the aspects of who you are, the problem isn’t you. The feelings of negativity, hopelessness, or worry are not your fault. There are a lot of factors of modern life like work, the environment, politics, or trying to juggle everything at once that generate anxiety or low-moods in many people, not just people with ADHD. Your ADHD symptoms may make fitting into the box of modern life difficult, but there are a lot of avenues that can help make things more manageable. 
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      <description>A blog about ADHD, anxiety, and depression. The post talks about stress, low mood, shame, and mentions both coping and symptoms</description>
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           Anxiety and depression are, contrary to popular belief, very common mental health issues. Everyone in any age or stage of life is vulnerable to these things and help is always available. People who have ADHD (in any presentation) have been found to be especially vulnerable to both anxiety and depression because of a vicious cycle that we can all get caught in. 
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           Because of the way that ADHD affects our lives (i.e. being seen as “scatterbrained”, having sudden changes in mood or energy levels, feeling impulsive, procrastinating, seemingly having little or no desire to do necessary or “boring” tasks, or time blindness) we can often feel quite a lot of stress, especially if we have gone undiagnosed. We may feel shame from ourselves or others for seeming “lazy”, “unmotivated”, or “flaky”. The stressors in ordinary life like work or engaging with friends or family can be especially stressful for people with ADHD. This creates a lot of vulnerability for high levels of anxiety and low mood.
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           Stress is not always harmful. There are healthy amounts of stress that people can experience that can increase productivity and better our problem-solving abilities. However, when people begin to feel stressed about future events or hypothetical events and that stress begins to feel uncontrollable and constant, we enter the realm of anxiety. 
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           People with ADHD may begin to feel they worry about nothing or become anxious because they believe they have forgotten something important. This is because we may often be forgetful or unaware of time simply because of the way our brains are wired. We may also be anxious that other people have poor opinions of us because of our ADHD. For these reasons, as well as genetic, environmental, or individual differences in life, people with ADHD are much more likely than the average individual to have long term anxieties.
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      <pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2021 12:41:32 GMT</pubDate>
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            When we get older we still have emotions, we have feelings and our thoughts can turn to joy or distress. At any age it can be hard for us to express them. For some people they may also not have had many different experiences in life that would make it easier for us to deal with these emotions or we may have been told or learnt to be a lot more stoical.
           
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           For some, it will be more likely they will  experience depression, anxiety and loneliness as they get older. This is because people do not live in social groups anymore, our bodies start wearing down and our friends die. We can loose our life partners.
          
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            It is important that we recognise as a society and as individuals it is ok to talk about our feelings, fears and often losses, not just of friends and loved ones but the roles that we may have once had. We need to get a good mix of self-care, have the medications that oil are joints or keep other conditions at bay and use  talking therapies like cognitive behavioural therapy or counselling, to get the most out of life.
           
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           Mental illness is a common experience in modern society and most people will go through this at some point in their lives, but the effects can be life-changing and hard to live with. There are many different treatments and therapies to use.
          
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           For most people, mental health difficulties develop slowly over many years. Mental illness can affect anyone's ability to have a happy, healthy and successful life. With the right support, most people with a mental health problem get better.
          
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           Our mental health is more important than ever – particularly because how we’re feeling mentally can have a big impact on how we feel physically. If you’re finding things tough and it’s affecting your mood and how you feel, then speaking to your GP is good place to start.
          
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           There’s something called 'talking therapies', which can really start to help people who are feeling low, anxious or out of sorts. They can sometimes be referred to as IAPT (improving access to psychological therapies) or just psychological therapies. They involve talking to someone who is specially trained to help us manage our thoughts and feelings and the effect they have on our behaviour and mood.
          
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      <pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2021 14:44:51 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Male Suicide</title>
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            Some years ago, I was working with a Charity. One of the men who used our services was reported missing. You just want to think that he just walked away. That he got on a bus to somewhere else. That he went and stayed with a friend for a few days. But in our hearts, we knew that was not the case. It took what felt like ages to find his body. In the local river. He was known to us and the local mental health services. You just ask why the signs were not there but in fact they were. Many people talk about wanting to kill themselves, this is not a strange and rare thing. But it is hard to know or predict who will or when they will follow up on what they are planning. There are certain things that is more likely to lead someone to suicide.
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            ''Since around 1990, men have been at least three times as vulnerable to death from suicide as women.
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            suggests that this greater risk is due to a complex set of reasons, including increased family breakdown leaving more men living alone; the decline of many traditionally male-dominated industries; and social expectations about masculinity:
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            It can be easy to think that people must be mentally ill to take their lives. Yes, problems like depression do increase the risk factors. This though can make us miss opportunities to intervene. Friends and families need to be supported in ways that will give them confidence to sometimes ask questions that they might be afraid will make things worse. This can be especially the case for young men.
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           ''Viewers praised Roman for his openness and bravery throughout the programme. Many also noted how important it was for opening the dialogue on suicide and Roman’s pledge to ask twice if someone is okay.''
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            It reminded me again how some years ago a small town near where I live was shocked when a young man with no history of mental health took his life. It was brought closer to home because all my kids knew them. Had gone to the same school and drunk in the same pub. If you have kids in their 20s and 30s there is a good chance within their circle of friends, they will know some young lad who has taken his life.
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           Trent PTS will always respond to a referral where the person says they have thoughts about suicide, attempted suicide or are planning to. We will arrange a very quick appointment or if needed have a senior clinician phone the person immediately. Once we have spoken with them, we will in most cases arrange the help with a trained therapist. All our staff have worked with people who have had or attempted suicide. If the person needs more help than we can provide we will make sure there is a referral to the right service. 
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           If you are worried about someone, help them complete a referral form or get them to phone us and someone can take the information over the phone. Feeling suicidal is frequently a response to a very painful situation or sense of hopelessness. Therapy can help. We will listen. 
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           The Samaritans give people confidential emotional support. In some areas they have local branches where you can go for support.
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      <pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2021 15:06:18 GMT</pubDate>
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      <description>Jack talks about his struggle with mental health and his journey to seek help and how Trent PTS  supported him</description>
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           You know it was not supposed to be like this. Life was all planned out. What the heck is happening to me? Something is going on. It must be a blip……….
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           These were the thoughts racing through my mind but by the time these thoughts started I already knew there was a problem, but I had been hiding the truth behind reason. In my mind battling with logic, a logic that I’m a mid-40’s professional person, I am a man of stature; hell, I’m a former Army officer of 20 years, I’m trained to deal with anything. I’ve led men and women into war. I’m a man, I don’t buckle. I am a father and it’s my job to be the rock, not to be broken and weak. This isn’t real, it can’t be. I just need to man up and sort myself out. It’ll be ok………..
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           We all go through our own evolution of internal conflict, whether that be what outfit to wear for that first date, do I buy that teat, or something more significant. Internal conflict has always ran deep within me so the noises in my head were not new, but this time not a conscious noise but more a subtle, quite whisper in the back of my mind that I could not shake. A whisper that grew louder.
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           Personally, I had always been a very assured person, able to deal with stress and thriving on pressure. In the recent months Id separated from my partner and whilst I had been in this situation before there was something different this time, something I could not understand, something that I couldn’t control and that scared me.
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           Eventually, as is nature, the truth caught up with me and on a quiet Tuesday afternoon at work it happened. I had ordered a coffee at the canteen and was walking back across the site to my desk when I suddenly started crying. Within minutes I was shaking. The shaking got so bad that I had to use both hands to put my coffee down. Panic set in. What if someone saw. I quickly found an empty first aid room and sat down on the floor, shaking and crying uncontrollably. I’d never felt so lost, so alone, so scared, but in that moment of fear I found absolutely clarity. I was broken and needed help.
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           What I learned about myself in that moment, there on the floor, would shape my future. I had realised very quickly that I didn’t know a lot of things, I didn’t know what was wrong with me, I didn’t know why, and I certainly didn’t know how I was going to fix things, but I knew right away that I needed help; in fact, I realised I had known that for some time. I thought deeply about perceptions, about what people would think, would this impact my career, how my daughter would react? All these things were racing through my head but in the same breath realised that the only thing that mattered was the only job I could not fail at, being a good dad. Because of that I knew I had to act. It was time to face my fears, then and there. It was time for honesty.
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           I searched the internet and to be honest found it difficult to find a solution for what I wanted; not that I had a clue what I needed. I agreed some time off at work and called my GP for an appointment thinking that would be as good a place as any to start. Typically, he was on leave so I would have to wait a week for my appointment. In the intervening week I hid away, my mind racing, once again trying to convince myself that I just needed to rest for a while. By the time the appointment came around I had thought I’d cancel it as I was fine, I had had some sleep and admitted I had a problem, but time would sort that out. To this day I don’t know why but something made me go. In my head I was playing out a tick box exercise where I would go, maybe get a week off work to rest and just carry on as normal. In the surgery, as I began to try and explain to my GP what the issues was, I just broke down again, unable to get the words out, all the time thinking how do I explain to you how I feel when I cant explain it to myself? It’s impossible!
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           The understanding given in that moment was amazing and instead of feeling ashamed and embarrassed as I thought I would, I actually felt empowered; more empowered than I had done in a very long time. I was not being judged, I wasn’t weak, I was just in need of help and this person may not of understood why but they certainly understood that.
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           Having walked into the surgery in denial I walked out with my head held high and a sense of pride, for the first time in my life id just admitted I needed help. A corner had been turned, I was starting my journey……..
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           Honesty. The first step to success in all walks of life is honesty but the hardest person in the world to be honest with is yourself. Nobody likes to know you’re lacking but the only way to improve anything is to know where you are. Never be afraid of admitting you have weaknesses that need work. The only way you improve anything is by working at it.
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           Talking is extremely hard. If I had a pound for every time I heard or read the words ‘I’m here if you need to talk’ I’d be a very rich man. People genuinely mean that when it is said but the reality is that talking to someone when you can’t explain things to yourself is almost impossible. Try and not dwell on the explanation, just know that saying you are struggling is often enough to get the ball rolling.
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           Strength is not moving past issues; strength is facing them head on. Pushing things to the back of your mind and moving on feels like strength at the time but from my experience it all comes back to haunt you in the end. Real strength is dealing with things, even if that opens you up to being vulnerable. In the end it may take time to heal but you can do it.
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           Asking for help is ok. It really is. We are incredibly lucky to live in a very understanding and aware society where the stigmatism behind mental health is rapidly becoming a thing of the past. You will be surprised when you open yourself up to acceptance that you need help just how many people you know have been in a similar situation and have quietly been through their own journey.
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           The most important thing in all this can often feel the opposite but remember, you are never alone, no matter how much it feels that way. There is always someone that cares, even if you don’t see it. You are worth far more than you will realise.
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      <pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2021 13:55:00 GMT</pubDate>
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           International Women's Day
            
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           I have been reflecting on this time last year attending Diva at the Royal concert Hall which brought together a 50-piece Limelight Orchestra with pop, soul, jazz and musical theatre vocalists for a special one-off event. Co-hosted by singer-songwriter Nina Smith and Kemet FM’s Jackie P. Featuring the Nottingham Women’s Centre choir, Nottingham’s very own phenomenally talented local legends Nina Smith, Emily Makis and Betsey Bircumshaw and featuring the Nottingham Girls’ High School Choir.
          
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           At Trent PTS we embed equality throughout our company. Ensuring everyone has access to the same opportunities. We champion not just women but all, develop inclusive work places, support and empower all genders, raise awareness and take action for equality. We drive change and rise to a challenge and 2020 certainly was that with all Trent PTS services going on line. Thanks to all our staff for their hard work, adaption, commitment, tolerance, innovation and continued professionalism.
          
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            Psychological therapy involves meeting with a therapist (a healthcare professional competent in giving psychological therapy) to talk about your feelings and thoughts and how these affect your behaviour and wellbeing.We know these help because we have followed up with people to see how it helped improve their life. This is done through what is called research studies. However some problems appear to beneift from certain ways of talking. Therapy comes with different labels.
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            It is sometimes hard to admit that we hurt those that we are trying to protect, especially when our biggest worry is just that! We can also be so easily consumed by our own feelings at times, that we are unaware the impact it has on our loved ones and friends. Every day is a lesson in how to love ourselves so we can learn how to love others. And I’m still learning but I’m getting closer.
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           rowing up, I always felt second best. My parents had an affair many years ago, resulting in myself and older sibling. We didn’t have a conventional upbringing, not even a Boxing Day dad, and I knew we would never be as important as my Dads `proper family` but we were happy, so I thought. As I grew older, my brother has had many issues and we are worlds apart in our ways. And my self-esteem hit rock bottom. It was obvious to those around me that I wasn’t coping and stress took over. I was getting numbness in my hands, slurred speech and brain fog. Going to work was such a chore and I cut off lots of friends. As the physical symptoms worsened, I had to be admitted to hospital as it was stroke symptoms and although I did recover, I was lucky it wasn’t a full stroke. I needed help. My thought process then was to always keep the peace, don’t cause a fuss, but I knew deep down I wasn’t my best self.
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            I attended sessions at Trent PTS a few years back now and found the simple breakdown of some of my main concerns and using CBT to re train my thought process has been invaluable. My teen boy has self-referred recently and as lockdown rears its ugly head again, my daughter was referred by her GP to Trent PTS. I don’t know where we would be without their solid structure and support lifeline. By normalising mental health, it’s really apparent that it is good to talk. I am sure they will be taught the foundations to address their own issues and as they may need to re visit the techniques from time to time, the tools will be there in place to aid them in life’s bumpy road. Genetics plays its part along with hormones but so does being human.
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           Creating a list of activities and events to look forward to after the lockdown will help to maintain a positive mindset. When you visualise things you look forward to, you generate positive emotions. Your brain does not know the difference between what is real and what is imagined and therefore focusing on pleasurable activities will enhance positive mood. Bear in mind that time is irrelevant here, you can imagine future events and activities and you can also draw on positive memories from the past to boost your levels of happy hormones such as serotonin, dopamine and endorphins. Endorphins in particular, are associated with pain relief as well as relaxation, and so doing or thinking about activities which produce this hormone can be highly beneficial.
          
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           Stress can take a massive toll on our wellbeing. Being aware of this is vital so that we can take steps to combat the effects of stress on our pain. This can be done in a number of ways such as:
          
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           Identifying the areas of stress in our lives – e.g. people, situations, aspects of work, specific activities.
          
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           Once we know what these are, we can work towards reducing these areas and making adjustments to limit the impact of things we cannot change.
          
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           Take time to research relaxation activities. One size does not fit all but there are numerous activities we can choose from and the more activities we are aware of, the greater choice we will have when it comes to choosing activities which resonate with us.
          
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           Examples of these may include; meditation, mindfulness, breathing techniques, visualisation and journalling.
          
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            This is a perfect time of year to consider setting some new goals for yourself. Take some time to brainstorm ideas of what you would like to achieve in 2021.
           
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           Once you have some ideas, break these down into steps and consider who may be able to assist you? Is there any research needed? Once you have the steps, break them down again into even smaller steps and then begin to schedule into your diary. Start with one step per week and gradually increase to 2 or 3 as time allows.
          
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            Always consider the WHY? Why do you want to achieve this specific goal?
           
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           Knowing your why will provide you with motivation when it feels difficult to maintain.
          
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           Contribute
          
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           Evidence shows that when we feel we are making a contribution; this can have a powerful and positive impact on our mental and emotional wellbeing. Consider areas of contribution you could make. This could be anything from raising money for a charity, volunteering, cooking for someone, helping someone with a task to giving someone a compliment to improve their day. Doing something for someone else will make you feel good and will also externalise your focus which is a win-win!
          
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           When we are in pain, especially when we feel low or isolated, it can be difficult to remember to feel grateful, but it is precisely in these moments where gratitude can be so helpful. Being able to remember what you have in your life that is positive will make you feel good and allow you to focus on something uplifting. This could be a kind word someone said to you, or a helpful friend or even noticing that there was less pain in the past hour than in the one before.
          
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           Start by taking time each day to write down 3 things that you are grateful for. People who do this consistently report that they unwittingly begin to notice more and more things to feel grateful for which boosts their mood.
          
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           9.
          
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           Learning to notice your thoughts is critical when trying to improve your mood. Most of our thoughts come straight from our subconscious mind and are automatic. We are often unaware of them until we notice that we are feeling badly. Making an effort to capture negative thoughts and then challenging them can be hugely helpful. Are your thoughts based on fact or are they just opinion/ negative self-talk? Commit to only accepting thoughts which have an evidence base. Learning to be aware that thoughts are not facts can be the first step in changing your mindset and becoming more positive. This shift in mindset will build resilience and help you to manage your pain more effectively over time.
          
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           One way to quickly improve your mood is to explore something new. Is there a subject that you have always been interested in but never found the time to look into? With the instant access to an abundance of knowledge gifted to us by the internet, Pinterest and YouTube, there is no reason why we cannot learn anything we want to.
          
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           Take some time to brainstorm areas of interest you might be passionate about. This could be anything from your next holiday to how the Pyramids were built but investing some time to consider what areas of interest appeal to you is a first step in gaining knowledge which will make you feel good and which you can share with others.
          
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           And Finally...
          
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           Prioritising self-care activities is particularly important in the effective management of pain.
          
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           Below is a list of 30 popular examples:
          
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           ·      Do something new
          
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           ·      Watch the sunrise
          
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           ·      Laugh
          
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           For example, if you find taking a long bath relaxing (1), why not elevate the experience by also listening to your favourite music (2) and perhaps drinking a glass of your favourite beverage (3). By using this 1-2-3 technique, you will amplify the pleasure experienced from the time you have available. Simple yet highly effective. 
          
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            Dealing with ‘the vicious circle of depression'
           
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           -My Experience of Guided Self Help
          
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           I have always seen myself as a person who doesn't cope with stress very well. I looked at people around me who coped much better than me and I was wondering why I was not as resilient as they were?
          
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           After a very stressful period at work when I started to experience pains in my chest, my GP told me about Trent PTS. I did the mindfulness training where I have learned very useful techniques on how to cope with stress. When I had a relapse of my depression, I didn't hesitate to come back to Trent PTS for some more tools I could use to get myself back on track.
          
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            When I look back - I can see now that I lacked knowledge and techniques to cope with stress. This is a learnable skill not something you're born with!
           
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           Now, when I implement all I have learnt in the sessions my stress levels dropped and I really enjoy my life. I am not dreading stressful situations anymore as I know how I can cope with them.
          
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           I wish this knowledge were part of the school curriculum. I wish as a teenager I could have learnt about resilience and techniques, about the negative impact of perfectionism, 9 pillars of a balanced life and negative thinking styles.
          
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           Thanks to Trent PTS I am not emotionally exhausted anymore as I stopped being a perfectionist, I have learnt how to calm myself down using grounding and breathing techniques. I became more assertive that brought back a smile on my face as I finally set some boundaries with people that I wasn't able to do it with in the past. I plan my week taking into consideration the 9 pillars of a balanced life - that give me sense of a balance as before it was all work-no-play. Of course, sometimes is not possible to have the balance perfect but intentional planning with all the areas in mind makes me happier.
          
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           As a therapist, if I had a pound every time someone told me “other people have it worse than me” then I would probably be working from my yacht somewhere in the Mediterranean Sea. Humans as a species are inclined to comparison. We constantly evaluate and measure ourselves based on the behaviours and personalities of others.
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           “Is their phone newer than mine?” “Are they better at the job than I am?” “How have they managed to watch more episodes of the Crown than me?”
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           The modern world of social media and our lives being much more open to audience has only furthered this. What is unfortunate is that we tend to go to either end of a spectrum. One moment we are convinced that everyone’s lives are much more exotic and exciting than ours and then the next we think we are complaining over nothing whilst others deserve that support and comfort. Realistically, none of these thoughts are based off evidence because no one is showing every aspect of their life on social media. We all have privacy and most importantly we are all wonderfully unique individuals. Comparison really does not serve much purpose other than to cause ourselves guilt or frustration.
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           The result of comparison is that at almost every assessment I do, which is around 7-10 a week, my patient will tell me that what they are saying sounds “stupid” or “ridiculous” because surely other people have it worse? And probably if you took a very long time to write every symptom of mental health and categorise them all then yes maybe you could argue this point. In the same way if someone broke one leg then yes maybe they do not have it as bad as the next guy who broke both his legs. But should we ask the person with one broken leg to keep walking on it? As the person with one broken leg would we look at the person with 2 and say I should be walking better than this?! The answer is of course no but that it can be hard to be that kind to ourselves whilst its happening.
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            When we experience issues with low mood or anxiety, it is hardly ever the same for every person. Therefore, comparison sort of goes out of the window. Your therapist will not be spending time thinking “oh well are they worse or better than the last person I talked to”. Instead, they will be considering the impact your symptoms are having, the kind of emotions this is causing and how they can support you. As a therapist, I do my work so that I can make a difference, however corny that sounds, and that is the priority. Comparison in which we highlight our negatives, and the positives of others is incredibly common and something that can be addressed in treatment. If you can take home one message it would be to not let that comparison be the reason you do not reach out.
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           Anxiety and depression can feel completely debilitating, it feels like we’re constantly accommodating for an unwanted visitor. This unwanted visitor causes havoc, stops us from doing the things that we enjoy, isolates us from our friends and drains all our energy out of us. We become accustomed to these feelings of impending doom and racing thoughts and we live everyday preparing for the next bad thing to happen. We lack motivation, tasks continue to build-up and everything feels unmanageable and overwhelming.
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           We wouldn’t be going to work and we wouldn’t be paying our bills that’s for sure! If we weren’t anxious COVID-19 cases would rise as nobody would keep a distance. Anxiety is what protects us, it keeps us safe, it keeps us productive and helps us to succeed. It is normal to experience anxiety at work when you have a deadline coming up, this is what will push you to achieve your best, help you meet your goals or work hard to do well in an exam. However, it’s when these feelings become debilitating and stop us from achieving, that we need to do something about them. This may be a sign that your anxiety is controlling you.
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           As mentioned, these feelings cannot be removed all together, they are natural responses to stressful or difficult situations. At Trent PTS, what we can do is help you learn to control these symptoms by giving you evidence-based strategies to manage your mood or anxiety so that you don’t notice them as often.
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           Once you complete a course of treatment with us, it is easy to feel cured and abandon these strategies that helped you because “you don’t need them anymore!”. However, what is key to recovery is being aware that the unwanted visitor will inevitably return at some point for a visit, but knowing that you’re now prepared and have the strength, tools and ability to be able to cut the visit short.
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            The national media have a tendency to portray veterans in a particular way – dirty clothes, hunched over and living rough - street people.  Sadly, this is the case for some veterans but we know that for many this isn’t true. It’s also not true that most veterans are struggling with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) even though that’s what we see in TV and films. Like us they have a broad range of needs but they can often struggle to find the right front door for getting help.
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           A Veteran is a person who has served in the Armed Forces for at least 1 day. There are approximately 2.4 million veterans in the UK, and about 10% of military personnel leave the Armed Forces every year – equating to around 20,000 people.
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           Veterans experience common mental health problems at about the same rate as the civilian population – 1 in 4 people will experience a difficulty such as anxiety and depression in any given year. We offer civilians and veterans alike free NHS-funded psychological therapies to help them overcome and manage their difficulties. We’re working hard at Trent PTS to ensure that we are aware of veteran-specific needs and adapt our practice to support veterans in the best way we can.
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           We understand that veterans can experience difficulties that are unique to them, and we’re here to support you with these too. We know the Armed Forces typically recruit from areas of deprivation and that people who sign up don’t always come from warm, loving homes and backgrounds. People take relationship difficulties, problems managing emotions and poor mental health with them into the Forces. When they come out – these difficulties can feel magnified on top of transitioning into civilian life and dealing with the uncertainty of the future. We understand that there’s a huge stigma around mental health within the Armed Forces and so these problems are often tackled using substances and avoidance – coping strategies which might help in the short-term but long-term create more difficulties.
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           People who are less in the spotlight but of equal importance are the families of veterans – Mums, Dads, Children, and Partners. Being from a Forces Family may mean that you’ve had to deal with loss, anger, uncertainty or upheaval. Research shows that 1 in 4 Armed Forces partners or family members report that their mental health has been affected by their loved ones Service. However 1 in 8 of those people say that they would try to cope alone and not seek support.
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           If your difficulties are combat-related or non-combat related we’re still here to help. We’ll take the time to listen to you, and what you need support with. We won’t assume your difficulties are about your time served – just because you’re a veteran. If you need help in working on your relationships, in dealing with your childhood, in managing your current situation, in finding value in your new civilian life, in helping with your anxiety or your depression – you should never feel alone. Trent PTS is here to help.
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           We’re working on developing stronger links with local and national organisations so if we can’t exactly meet your needs, we’ll know who can. You can self-refer on our website, there’s no need to see your GP.
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           Welcome to the first in a series of blogs about coping with pain
          
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           The Oxford Dictionary defines pain as a,
          
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           “ highly unpleasant physical sensation caused by illness or injury”
          
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           This is not a particularly encouraging definition nor is it a subject that people often like to talk about. After all, focusing on pain can sometimes intensify our experience of it, rather than make us feel better. However, this does not have to be the case and it is certainly a topic which impacts many of us and so is worthy of discussion.
          
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           Did you know that a staggering 20.5% of the World’s population is affected by chronic pain? That is over 1.5 billion people worldwide! In the UK two fifths of adults are affected.
          
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           Whether the cause is through injury, chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia or one of many other chronic pain conditions, it can be devastating for sufferers and their families, and can lead to problems such as mental health issues, loneliness and poor employment outcomes.
          
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           So what we can do?
          
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           If you are in pain, the first port of call should always be a medical professional.
          
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            Alongside this, it will often be up to you to find ways of coping with your pain through
           
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           self- care and fortunately, there are many strategies and techniques which can help if you are experiencing a pain condition.
          
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           Self-care strategies require commitment, time, accountability, openness and a willingness to make changes which are not always easy when we are in pain and feel tired and lacking in energy.  Speaking from experience, the results are more than worthwhile!
          
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           However, before we dive deeper into specific strategies, it is essential that you first take some time to record everything you can about your pain.
          
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           No-one understands your pain better than you do and so gathering as much information about your specific pain and the impact is often the key to making a positive difference.
          
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           The Groundwork – 6 steps to understanding your pain:
          
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           Step 1: Your Pain Portfolio
          
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           Buy yourself a large notebook specifically for the purpose of writing down everything you have learned about your pain and working through these steps. Choose a book that is attractive to you and write your name inside. Make a commitment for this to be your companion on your pain journey and write the date each time you make an entry.
          
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           Step 1 addresses questions such as:
          
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           Where do you feel the pain? Is your pain in single or multiple areas?
          
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           How often do you feel the pain?
          
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           How would you rate your pain at different times of the day?
          
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           Take note of this every hour during waking hours for 7 days.
          
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           Identify what makes your pain reduce and what makes it feel worse?
          
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           Step 2: Illness or injury?
          
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           Step 2 includes writing down all the details of what happened to you.
          
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           Be really specific about what was happening around you when you first noticed your pain.
          
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           Was your pain caused by an injury/event?
          
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           Was there no obvious cause?
          
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           When did you first notice the pain?
          
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           Has the pain changed over time?
          
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           Given this information, what can you learn about your pain?
          
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           Step 3 addresses your thought patterns and the impact of your pain and looks at questions such as:
          
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           What are your thoughts about pain in general?
          
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           Do you believe pain means you will never feel good again?
          
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           What emotions do you feel when you think about your pain?
          
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           What areas of your life have been impacted and in what ways?
          
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           What do you perceive you have lost?
          
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           What does having to live with pain say about you?
          
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           Who are you now?
          
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           What are your goals? Have these changed due to your pain?
          
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           What 6 things are most important to you?
          
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           What are you looking forward to?
          
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           Step 4 looks at your awareness of your pain and includes exercises such as setting yourself a task to notice your thoughts throughout the day, not just about your pain but your thoughts in general. Perhaps set an alarm on the hour for several hours per day and write down the types of thoughts you are having. No need to analyse, just notice the thoughts and write them down.
          
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           Step 5 addresses how you spend your time now versus what you used to be able to do.
          
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           During this step you would create 2 lists of activities. The first list should consist of activities you do each week. Become conscious of how you are spending your time. You can divide this list into the following categories: necessary activities such as work, routine activities such as household tasks and pleasurable/relaxing activities such as hobbies. 
          
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           Evidence shows that the people who feel the happiest have a good balance of these types of activities in their schedules. This exercise will give you a benchmark of your current schedule and allow you to notice where there are obvious gaps that can be addressed. Re-arranging your activities to correspond with your pain and energy levels can be an important shift and allow you to pace yourself appropriately in order to make the most out of your day.
          
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           The second list should consist of activities you used to do, perhaps when you were much younger. What did you naturally enjoy doing, when there was no pressure on you? What did you enjoy and gravitate towards?
          
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           This step also considers which activities you no longer do as a result of the pain and which activities you avoid doing as a result of fear of pain?
          
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           Step 6 pulls all the information together and includes taking some time to review all the information you have gathered about yourself and your pain.
          
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           What have you noticed? Are there any patterns? Are there any repeated emotions or thoughts? Has anything surprised you? How has life changed? How have you changed?
          
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           Although completing these initial steps will require some time and effort, it will provide you with a valuable roadmap of how you can start to move forward and manage your pain in a more helpful way, perhaps through processing emotions, challenging your thought processes, adjusting your activities and goals or making more time in your schedule to take care of yourself.
          
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           In the next blog in this series, we will look more closely at how we can turn this roadmap into a plan and how integrating specific self-care techniques can boost your resilience and mood.
          
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            We know it can be hard to take that first step to seeking out help.
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           Thank you for your referral (read this at your leisure and if it’s hard to take in, put it to one side – it is a could read not a must read
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           We understand that taking this first step to seek support and help is for some people quite a big decision. We thought it might be helpful to tell you what happens to your referral form and how we use it, along with what you can expect to happen. We will also provide some links to  information that may help you prepare for therapy. 
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           The form you completed asks you describe your problem and some background details about you. You would have also answered some questions about specific things that we know trouble people in a similar position to yourself. You would have rated how frequently and intensely they impact you. This helps us plan the best way to respond and what sort of therapy would help. 
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           The form is processed the day after you submit it (for Friday-Sunday we look at them on Monday). They are usually all read and reviewed by 1pm. Clinical staff read them all and will allocate them to a type of therapy that best matches your problem and needs.  A booking clerk will then contact you later that day or the next morning to arrange your assessment appointment. Your appointment offer will usually be within two to three weeks of this contact. If it is not convenient, they will find a date and time that works for you. We strongly encourage people to have this assessment  as soon as possible, starting therapy works better if you act as quickly as possible after you make that initial decision to seek help. 
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           In most cases the therapist you see for an assessment will be the same person who continues with you for your therapy. However, for some people they may have not been able to get across all of their needs on the form. The therapist will talk with you about either a different form of therapy or allocating you for a longer duration of therapy. 
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           In some circumstances, when reviewing your referral form, we can see there are some really urgent issues that we need to know more about and we might be concerned about your safety. A senior clinician will then phone you on the day we receive your referral. This is to check that coming to therapy is the best plan, or so we can support you accessing more urgent help if this is needed.
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           Therapy is very effective. There are some things you can do that will help you get the most out of it. 
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             If you can, always talk to a close friend or loved one about your decision, they can help you keep your appointment, even come along with you, in case you become nervous about your decision. A lot of our therapy at this time, is offered over the phone or by video. This can be very convenient but also you are in surroundings that you are familiar with. However, do try to make that space at home private, so you can talk freely without disturbances. 
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            Try to think a little bit about the problems you are struggling with, writing about them can help. Also, think about what changes you want to make or the things you want to be able to do or maybe stop, habits that have become unhelpful.  But, don’t worry if you can’t do any of this. Your therapist will be very skilled at helping you express yourself. 
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             If for any reason, the appointment offered has to be changed, then just get in contact but do try to give us some notice. Ideally 48 hours or more. If something happens on the day, let us know you have to change the appointment. All our cancelled appointments can then be offered to other people. If you cancel, we will aim to get you back in as soon as possible. 
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            On the next page are some helpful numbers and links to resources. 
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            If it becomes too much and you need really urgent help, or to just talk with someone to help you get through, even if you have made your referral, you can ring these numbers. Let them know you have referred yourself to us. Ringing them will not affect your referral to us (they will not share your details with us) but if they do offer some different help, that you take up, let us know if you then want to cancel your therapy with us. 
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           All our qualified therapists are accredited with the BACP/BABCP/UKCP (or working towards accreditation). This means they have followed a specified training, follow a code of ethics, are supervised and keep up with training.   
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           We follow NHS guidance and standards on what works for people, that has been shown in research to get the best results and based on feedback from clients. We also track closely how your therapy is helping (we will ask you to complete special forms at each session that gives us feedback on your progress) and your therapist will discuss this with you, so you get the most from your support. 
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           Our brain is a wonderful and mysterious machine. It knows how to problem solve, make sense of a world with many complications, and keeps us going. But panic attacks have got be one of its biggest screw ups. I know as a therapist I really should not go round insulting the body part that essentially keeps me in a job but its true. Panic attacks usually occur due to our brain’s reaction to a situation, person or general feeling of threat. And this is all built from a system that is quite frankly outdated. Not just a little outdated, like hundreds of thousands of years out of date.
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           You may have heard of the fight or flight system and if you have then you may remember the example of a cavemen with a woolly mammoth running at him. Stripped to its core, the fight or flight reaction is the alarm system in our brain telling us how to react to something that may harm us. With a woolly mammoth this means either stabbing it with our spear or running away. As I hope we are all aware, woolly mammoths are not really an issue anymore. The problem we have is the fight or flight system was designed to protect us in what was a very black and white world.
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           Nowadays, the world is very grey. Mr Caveman did not have to worry about work meetings or car journeys or a nationwide lockdown. Essentially, the system hasn’t been updated since we developed a brain big enough to hold it.
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           A panic attack is the result of our brain releasing a bucketload of adrenaline into our body to make us aware that something bad is happening. We can get physical symptoms like our heart beating faster because it wants to pump more blood to the muscles, meaning we can run away or attack something or muscle tension/pins and needles because all this blood and oxygen has gone into the legs and arms literally waiting for us to punch a woolly mammoth in the face. When this doesn’t happen, we don’t exert the energy and eventually when this dies down, we are left exhausted, shaky and weak. Our thinking patterns during a panic attack may snowball even further because it feels so inappropriate of a response or we worry that it is something physical like a heart attack. This then makes our mind feel threatened and so the cycle continues.
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           Insomnia by definition is disturbance of normal sleep pattern with either difficulties initiating or maintaining sleep. It is actually really normal to have the occasional bad night’s sleep. Most of us would expect not to sleep well if there was something big happening, such as a relative being unwell or having an interview the next day. However, for some people these sleep issues persist and develop into what we would call insomnia.
          
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           Firstly, relax. The excess focus that we put on sleep and sleep difficulties can actually make the problem worse. Trying “too hard” to fix it, doesn’t work. If you look to times you have slept well or speak with others who have minimal issues with sleep; they don’t have a set of things they must do to sleep. They don’t always follow the rules and can still sleep well. Sleep hygiene can play a part but can we get too caught up in the Dos and Don’ts, this can lead to a cycle like below.
          
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           If someone tells you that they have never procrastinated, then I would bet money that they are not telling the truth. At some point we have all desperately cleaned the kitchen or made a long colour coded list to avoid that ever-looming task. We tell ourselves over and over that we need to get this distraction task done but, in our gut, we know that it is not helpful. There is often an angel and devil on the shoulder situation going on with the angel saying “Do you remember last time you procrastinated and had to stay up to 4am writing that report?” whilst your devil is whispering “Go on…one more episode of Games of Thrones won’t hurt”.
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           Procrastination is one of the most common behaviours that we will kick ourselves for later down the line. The biggest reason is that is incredibly unhelpful and frustrating. We know any reason we avoided an important report or essay was not valid and did not put us any closer to our personal goals. Unfortunately, procrastination is not only a vicious cycle but also relatively addictive because of that short-term relief from the distraction.
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           There are things we can do. By self-referring to Trent PTS, we can first understand where you are procrastinating, what other symptoms you might have and how this is affecting you. Usually, we would probably go down the path CBT based therapies such as Guided Self Help which is focused on our cycles and how we can learn to independently cope with different difficulties. There are a lot of both emotional and practical tools which can support your productivity, your wellbeing and confidence when approaching an important but perhaps daunting task. It may feel like that cycle of procrastination and last-minute chaos has you trapped but it is not impossible, and we can help it make more sense and feel more in your control.
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           I’m going to let you in on a secret early in this blog, perfect does not exist. It’s kind of like running a race in a dream where you never seem to get to the finish line because it isn’t real. When we picture a perfectionist, we imagine someone redoing a test until they get an A** or working until 3am at night hyper on 3 coffees and 4 red bulls. It is true that this might be the case for some, but perfectionism goes beyond this, it effects our thought processes, our assumptions and how we treat ourselves and others.
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           As a therapist, I aim to help people not miss out on what is happy and enjoyable because they are so stuck in the fear of not being good enough. Thinking of ways to challenge our perfectionist thoughts and behaviours can help us to realise that often they are not helpful, and we can be proud of ourselves which much less strain. It means that the little achievements and the fun moments of the day become more noticeable and our self-worth is no longer based on something that cannot be reached.
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           “PTSD: Isn’t that just for soldiers?”
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
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           Here’s a question I get asked more often than I’ve had hot dinners “Isn’t PTSD just for soldiers?” Post-traumatic stress disorder is a mental health difficulty that soldiers can experience, but so can the rest of the population! Estimates vary a lot but a rough guide is that 4.4% of the UK population experience PTSD (based on findings from the Adult Psychiatric Morbidity Survey, 2014) and approximately 1 in 3 people that experience a traumatic event will develop some symptoms of PTSD as a result. What does that mean for us? Well across Nottinghamshire and Derbyshire that means approximately 81,000 people will be struggling with PTSD right now. It’s definitely not just a soldier thing.
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
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           Everybody’s experience of trauma is different, and what is traumatic for one person won’t necessarily be traumatic for another. But here are some common examples of traumatic incidents – car accidents, violent attacks, sexual assault or rape, abuse, kidnap, seeing another person being hurt or abused, traumatic childbirth, losing a loved one in upsetting circumstances, surviving a terrorist attack or natural disaster, or any event in which you fear for your life.
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
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            Experiencing any one of these events is naturally very upsetting and distressing, and feeling this way doesn’t mean you’ve automatically got PTSD. If you do experience a traumatic event, it’s so important to talk to people about how you feel, there’s no need to bottle it up. Really take care of yourself during the aftermath and make sure you’re reaching out to people you’re close to.
           
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
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           Most of us will have seen the typical flashbacks of PTSD in a film or TV programme. But do you know the other symptoms of PTSD?
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
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           ·      Re-experiencing the event through flashbacks or nightmares (this can be triggered off or come out of the blue)
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
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           ·      Avoiding thinking about the event or reminders (i.e. places, TV programmes)
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
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           ·      Feeling agitated or on edge
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
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           ·      Always feeling on guard or easily jumpy
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
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           ·      Feeling low in mood or numb – no feelings at all
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
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           ·      Feeling irritable or angry
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
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           ·      Difficulties concentration or zoning out
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    &#xD;
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           ·      Feeling differently about ourselves, other people or the world
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    &#xD;
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           ·      Not getting pleasure out of things that you used to enjoy, or doing less in general
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    &#xD;
    &lt;/span&gt;&#xD;
  &lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
  &lt;p&gt;&#xD;
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      &lt;br/&gt;&#xD;
    &lt;/span&gt;&#xD;
  &lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
  &lt;p&gt;&#xD;
    &lt;span&gt;&#xD;
      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
           If you find after several weeks that you’re still struggling with the symptoms of PTSD, visit your GP or self-refer to us for an assessment. Even if it’s been years since you experienced the event; if you’re still experiencing these symptoms then it’s important to reach out. There are several evidence-based effective treatments we can offer for PTSD, including Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (Tf-CBT), Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR), or Counselling.
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    &#xD;
    &lt;/span&gt;&#xD;
  &lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      &lt;br/&gt;&#xD;
    &lt;/span&gt;&#xD;
  &lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
  &lt;p&gt;&#xD;
    &lt;span&gt;&#xD;
      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
           If you’d like to learn more about PTSD, here are some helpful videos and websites:
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    &#xD;
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      &lt;br/&gt;&#xD;
    &lt;/span&gt;&#xD;
  &lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
  &lt;p&gt;&#xD;
    &lt;span&gt;&#xD;
      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
           YouTube: What is PTSD? 
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    &#xD;
    &lt;/span&gt;&#xD;
    &lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2KXtlIX_yUs" target="_blank"&gt;&#xD;
      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
           https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2KXtlIX_yUs
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    &#xD;
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      &lt;br/&gt;&#xD;
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  &lt;p&gt;&#xD;
    &lt;span&gt;&#xD;
      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
           Mind: PTSD 
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    &#xD;
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    &lt;a href="https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd/about-ptsd/" target="_blank"&gt;&#xD;
      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
           https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd/about-ptsd/
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    &#xD;
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    &lt;/span&gt;&#xD;
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    &lt;span&gt;&#xD;
      &lt;span&gt;&#xD;
        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
                        
            NHS Choices. Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. 2015.
           
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      &#xD;
      &lt;/span&gt;&#xD;
    &lt;/span&gt;&#xD;
    &lt;a href="http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/Posttraumatic-stress-disorder/Pages/Introduction.aspx" target="_blank"&gt;&#xD;
      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
                      
           http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/Posttraumatic-stress-disorder/Pages/Introduction.aspx
          
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    &#xD;
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            Did you know that many people over 55 and those going into  thier 70s and even 80s refer themesleves to IAPT services, to what we call talking therapies. Being older does not mean you will not be troubled by sadness, anxiety  or dealing with social  situations. And you certainly should not feel it is something you have to just get on with, its not part of the aging process. As mark exlplains, its o.k. to ask for help and talking therapies are very effective. It does not require a long commitment, many people are better within 8 sessions. If you have a phone or know how to use the internet, We can deliver your therapy  directly to you in the comfort of your own home by phone or over a video link.
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            Have you ever skipped to the end of the book wanting to know how it ends? Or wished for a crystal ball to know how that exam result is going to turn out? Or wondered how your first blog writing experience will go (no one else? Just me?)? If we had the ability to remain infinitely certain about life, then the rate of anxiety would nosedive, and I may be out of a job!
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           The experience of anxiety is different for every person because we cannot put everyone’s life events and difficult moments into one category. However, when I break down an anxious person’s thoughts and behaviours in therapy, we often find that they are struggling to tolerate uncertainty and the parts of life that they cannot control. They make plan A all the way through to Z, avoid any situation that is not in their comfort zone or become overwhelmed when the schedule they made is not fulfilled. But often it is the ‘what if’ thought that is the most time consuming and overwhelming symptom. We’ve all had a thought like this many times in our life, what if my car breaks down and I’m late for that meeting, what if I forget my notes and let the team down, what if I forgot to pack trousers?? And that is okay, worries and anxiety allow us to evaluate and remember what is important. It is when these thoughts start to spiral and take control of us that we need to take notice and look after ourselves.
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           By referring into Trent PTS, we can assess how the anxiety is impacting your life and in what ways we can support it. Hypothetical worries are often treated with Guided Self Help which is a therapy based on CBT. Ultimately, the aim will be to get you to a stage where you feel confident to take back the reins with the worries and know that whilst we don’t want to stop worry completely, it doesn’t have to interfere with every part of our life. 
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           I am stronger than this. I am stronger than my anxiety.
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            We all have and experience anxiety to a small degree through our life but for some people, more than you probably think, it can become more overwhelming and seem relentless. It can interfere with everyday activities, work and impact relationships. For young people it can disrupt their studies at school or university. The triggers for prolonged periods of anxiety and more frequent attacks of the sensations listed above are varied but they can often be found. It might seem like it is coming out of nowhere. 
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           Seeking help from a qualified professional Therapist will help. They will help you understand more about those triggers. They will help you find your saber tooth tiger. How do you know you should be seeking help? 
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           When you decide to self-refer the form will ask you some specific questions related to anxiety. It will also ask you about mood. Some people have both anxiety and depression. There are also questions about how it effects your life and something we call the avoidance scale. That tells us how much you are avoiding doing things, a common occurrence with anxiety. This helps us plan what type of therapist to allocate. Cognitive Behavior therapy (CBT) is highly effective with anxiety. So, we will often match you to that type of therapy. 
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           When you see the therapist, they will work out with you if you have what we call a generalized anxiety problem or it’s a little bit more specific, like a social anxiety or maybe agoraphobia. There are also features of anxiety that occur in post-traumatic stress syndrome (PTSD). There are also times when anxiety features arise when something big has happened that effects your life, such as losing a job. A therapist will help you with strategies to adjust but can also refer you to one of our employment advisors. Who will support you with getting back into the job market? 
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      <description>We are still here to help you. We don’t close because your mental health does not just stop. 
Covid as an event is unparalleled in its impact and reach, across the world, just think about that. There is no place where this is not being talked about. It poses an absolute physical threat to us, as individuals. We might want to try and put this in the seasonal flu category. Personally, I never believed I would potentially die from the flu. If a loved one got the flu, I have never experienced them going to hospital and being in an ICU. This threat creates anxiety even in the most un-anxious of us.</description>
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           Covid as an event is unparalleled in its impact and reach, across the world, just think about that. There is no place where this is not being talked about. It poses an absolute physical threat to us, as individuals. We might want to try and put this in the seasonal flu category. Personally, I never believed I would potentially die from the flu. If a loved one got the flu, I have never experienced them going to hospital and being in an ICU. This threat creates anxiety even in the most un-anxious of us.
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            My teenage son was Covid positive two weeks ago. I am not an anxious person. But I had to deal with those nagging little intrusive thoughts. Not really about his safety...but mine! You see, I am 60 and a little too fond of a sweet snack...overweight. I had to weigh up the evidence and facts. Yes, some people get poorly with this and some people die. But most, yes most will be ok. But which group would I be in? My son was fine, a cough for a few days. We did all the precautions and no one else in the house picked up the virus.
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            It does not take a scientist or otherwise person to tell us that our mental health is effected by Covid and all the upheaval it has created in our lives, the restrictions and just that uncertainty; when will it be over? There is only one certainty now, we must live with uncertainty. But as humans we do not deal with that so well.
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            Lockdown, restrictions, job loss and financial hardship. They will impact mental health in all communities. Depression, anxiety, adjustment problems, loneliness, stress, grief and in some cases PTSD (post trauma stress disorder) are increasing.
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      <pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2020 15:37:17 GMT</pubDate>
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      <description>I guess I should let you the reader be the judge of this blog. But it is what we so often do, judge ourselves and quite negatively. In our last blog we briefly explained what depression is and what it can look like and feel like. Negative thoughts or self -talk is though a quite common feature.</description>
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            I guess I should let you the reader be the judge of this blog. But it is what we so often do, judge ourselves and quite negatively. In our last blog we briefly explained what depression is and what it can look like and feel like. Negative thoughts or self -talk is though a quite common feature. 
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           My friend Peter, is an exceptionally talented artist but during the Covid19 lockdown. Having dealt well with past episodes of depression, found himself trapped in a spiral of negative thinking. His days then filled with inertia, what was the point and what hope was there it could be any better. But the good thing, he had learnt about his early warning signs. He knew that negative thinking was not good for him, that it could be dealt with and he was able to find the trigger. All that very gloomily news about Covid19. He switched off from media. 
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            There are diverse ways of dealing with depression. One of the main ways is to talk with someone. You will sometimes hear the term ‘talking therapies.’ The other way and you may have had this offered to you and taken, is medication. You can take medication and still access therapy. 
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            Talking therapies refer to approaches to how a trained professional will approach you, your problems and what to talk to you about. Many years ago, the NHS launched something called ‘improving access to psychological therapies’ or the short form of IAPT (see notes for a brief video explanation of IAPT)). It was to make sure that in every local NHS area people could be referred or refer themselves to a service that could supply these psychological therapies or talking therapies. The reason for this was that we know that these approaches are highly effective, most people experience an improvement. 
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            When it comes to depression, there are some slightly separate ways to approach how we talk about it with someone? In our service, we use what we know currently to be the most effective. This is Cognitive Behaviour therapy (CBT) and Counselling. However, we also have a few other ways that we can use when these do not work so well. 
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            While both these approaches are remarkably effective. They do take a slightly different approach in what they focus on when talking with you. 
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            One key difference between CBT and Counselling. A CBT will ask a lot about what you are thinking and a Counsellor will ask a lot about how you feel. 
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            I know. It should be ‘wither on the vine.’ If something withers on the vine, it is destroyed very gradually, usually because no one does anything to help or support it. I am making a play on the words. Depression can be very destructive. If a ripe fruit is the best version of what we can be, to let it degrade, for it to go unsupported, perish, can lead to depression. 
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            Why use the word weather? How many times have you heard someone talk about dark clouds hanging over them? People will often talk about carrying a burden, a heavy weight and this can talk to that sense of responsibility for too many things, often outside our control. Weather relates us to what is happening around us, what is going on in the environment and this is especially important when thinking about depression. 
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            Let's recap. We will often have a version of who we would like to be, that is our happy or contented self. To keep that, we must do good things for ourselves and have people around who can support our best self. Its maintaining a constant state of nourishment, so we are so to speak at our ripest. But what is going on in the environment is important. Things that change in our environment or our circumstances. These can get us down. Make us depressed. 
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            They use to talk about depression as coming from outside or from within. For many people it can be a bit of both. For some, its as if that depression sneaks up on them. 
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            Depression symptoms can vary in severity, from mild to moderate to severe depression. If you experience symptoms of depression for most of the day – every day – for more than two weeks, you should seek help from your GP or refer yourself to psychological therapies. If you have a friend or loved one, who you are worried about? Talk to them and encourage them to seek help. 
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            What we do at Trent PTS is to specialise in offering therapy for depression. It's what we are good at. We can help you get back to being the best version of yourself. Help you understand what happened. Help you plan how to look after yourself, to watch out for the sneaky depression creeping back in and if it does, know how to get your best self-back. 
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      <description>For Therapy to work, there has to be a trusting relationship formed from the very beginning. Therapy can feel like a strange thing to do. You meet with someone who you know nothing about and you tell them very personal things about your life, the people in it, what you are thinking and you will probably share tearful moments.</description>
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           Working with your therapist
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            For Therapy to work, there has to be a trusting relationship formed from the very beginning. Therapy can feel like a strange thing to do. You meet with someone who you know nothing about and you tell them very personal things about your life, the people in it, what you are thinking and you will probably share tearful moments. 
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            At Trent IAPT, we make sure we employ well trained therapists and we make sure they are properly supervised. All our therapists have to be accredited with a professional body and they have to keep up with their continuing development. They follow rules on confidentiality. This will give you assurance that you will be seen by someone you can have a trustworthy relationship with. 
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            That they are solely focused on helping you achieve the best you can from your life. Therapists will usually share a little bit of information about themselves with you. But this does vary according to the choice a therapist will make. What they will do is listen, respect you and not be judgmental. They will talk in a conversational way with you but be guided by a clear idea in their view of what might help as to the topics to talk about, what sort of questions to ask and to guide you to think more about certain ideas. The therapist's approach to things to talk with you about and what things to focus on is guided by what we know has helped other people. 
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            The therapist will clearly come to know a lot about you. With a good therapist you will find that you are very comfortable sharing your feelings and thoughts, stories about your life. 
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            As you talk and share with your therapist, a slightly strange thing happens. As they get to know you, you get to know yourself a lot more. And as you learn more about yourself, you will start to see and experience possibilities to make changes in your life, for the better. You will also learn about what you want more from life, what is good for you and how to negotiate with those around you, both the support you need and the things that upset you. 
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            become aware of ways of thinking that may be automatic but are inaccurate and harmful. (An example might be someone who has a low opinion of his or her own abilities.) The therapist helps the person find ways to question these thoughts, understand how they affect emotions and behaviour, and try ways to change self-defeating patterns. This approach is central to cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). 
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           Many people make changes quite quickly after starting therapy. It does not take years. Having trust in your therapist from the start is important. That’s why at Trent IAPT we employ excellent therapists and make sure they stay up to date with most effective therapies. At the end of therapy, you will be asked about feedback on your experiences. This helps us improve the services.
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